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Well today sucks. My ex and his girlfriend have decided that I am no longer good enough to be my Kids Mom. They have let me see them for 1 whole hour in the last year. Now they have cut of fall contact AT ALL. Not a single thing I can do about it, either, since they can afford really good lawyers, and I cant afford even 1 mediocre one. Freaking fabulous.


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How old are your kids?
My girl, Miranda was 6 days old when the hospital decided I can't look after her, so they called Yooralla and gave my daughter to my mum. When the yooralla OT came to visit me at my mum's 2 days after I was released from hospital, she decided I shouldn't be allowed to spend time with her unsupervised until she was at least 4 years old.
My mum told her scummy sister all the arrangements she'd made, her sister, Ruth threatened to report me for false statements like claiming child support when Miranda wasn't living with me. I was blackmailed into giving up custody of the child that I wasn't allowed to raise as my own.

This is all so very wrong. I should've sued the hospital for discrimination, but battling post partum depression, my own depression and divorcing my now ex husband while being told I was a baby myself and I'd never be able to live by myself was just too much.

After I'm walking again, I will then have more kids, I'm hoping for 2 eventually.

That's rotten that they did that to you. Do they have custody of the kids? Everything should be recorded, like what day and time you saw the kids for how long. My mum has recorded that Miranda's father has seen her once in 3years even though he's allowed to see her by  court order for 4 hours per month. I don't have any court visitation, but my Mum can't stop me from  making the 2 hour journey to see my baby girl...who is now 5years old.


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My kids are 14 and 16.

I actually still have custody, but they lived with him the last year. A cop told me I had to give them up or they would put them in foster care - cause I was depressed and sick.

I have everything recorded, and I wont even communicate if not in writing.


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~Keilia~
   

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Ok, if you won't communicate if not in writing, and you don't have it written down that the cop was so mean and nasty, go and get them back!
Police work the same way, if it's not written down, it didn't happen.

At that age, I'd ask the kids if they're happier with their dad who never lets their mum see them, or if they'd like to move with their mum. It's their lives, they should be asked to throw their own opinions in.


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At this point it doesnt matter who they are happier with. If he refuses any contact between me and them, Im taking them back. I refuse to be blocked from their life completely, and that is what will happen if they stay with their dad and that witch of a girlfriend. The whole problem is nothing I have done - its simply that she wants to be their Mom, and is pissed that someone besides her is the mother of children by HER MAN. Such childish crap that my kids should not ever have to witness.  aggressive aggressive aggressive


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~Keilia~
   

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That is so childish...
It should matter! Kids of that age are old enough to make up their own minds...


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It does matter to me up to a point - but if he refuses any contact between me and the kids - I am taking them back, regardless.

They have a good life there, and I do not want to take them away from that. But I have no other choice if he is going to cut me, my husband, and my son out of their life completely.
 :angry aggressive aggressive aggressive aggressive aggressive aggressive aggressive



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~Keilia~
   

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This is awful Keilia  Sad
Last thing you need is more stress  aggressive Have you managed to speak with your kids to ask how they are feeling ? even a phone call ? It's not nice seeing parents fighting over kids so I hope you get this sorted


 Huge Hug
Sammy


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No, they are refusing all contact  - no myspace, no email, no phone, no snail mail, nothing. Cant see them and cant talk to them. :angry :angry :angry :angry :angry :angry :angry :angry :angry


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~Keilia~
   

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The kids are with my Mom today, so I just got to talk to my daughter. I asked her if she could call me sometime, since I cant call her. She said, "I'll have to ask Melissa (her dads girlfriend)". THAT IS BULLCRAP. And Ryan wouldnt even talk to me. This is such CRAP.


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~Keilia~
   

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I just talked to a police office friend of mine in Fort Worth, TX. Since I still legally have custody, at the end of what would be his summer visit, if they were still living wioith me, I could go down and just take the kids back. If they continue this bullcrap, thats exactly what I am going to do. I dont want to interrupt their lives, but I refuse to be cut off completely from my kids, and have them be fed such BS like they are (what a terrible Mom I am, etc), so this seems to be my only choice.


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